So I might get murdered tomorrow

[Behemoth]

I've been seeing a girl whose in a relationship, but he's abusive so it really doesn't bother my conscience. She lives with him but despises him and tomorrow she will be moving out to her own place.

It is sketchy because he's supposed to be gone and we're trying to get her out without conflict. But there is a chance he'll return but we have to risk it. Me and him have a history and I don't hate people but I hate him. He's psychotic and tried to have me arrested on multiple felony charges because he's insecure about himself and his relationship and felt threatened by me. It's never fun walking out the door to go to the gym and being handed a search warrant for your house while 6 officers from 2 PD's play room raiders in your apt. Luckily he's an idiot and doesn't understand the law and none of his BS stuck.

Anyhow... theres a fair chance he'll return tomorrow and I really can't begin to guess what reaction he might have. I'm not sure I would put it past him to try and kill me ? I'm definetly putting the PD on speeddial and am thinking of notifying them ahead of time. Wish me luck haha

[Altephor]

Get murdered? This title should say 'arrested for murder'.

[ncsuLuke]

this is why i have my concealed handgun license

[BigCorey75]

stay safe and stay locked and loaded is all i gotta say

[Behemoth]

Get murdered? This title should say 'arrested for murder'.

I would never attack this guy. I hope he assaults me so I can press charges... I just hope he doesn't assualt me with a deadly weapon and/or force. There will be one other guy helping so at least theres another witness if I end up having to defend myself

[RBB]

when are some of you guys ever going to learn? you don't get involved with women with these kind of problems. it just creates problems for you, which isn't worth it.

that said, i totally agree with corey. if you really feel like this guy will try to assault you with some sort of weapon bring one of your own.

[RedSpikeyThing]

If you don't have a gun licencse, bring a knife.
Is there any way you could call the PD and ask them for suggestions? If you know what time you're going to be moving they may come drive by.

[iLikeMilk]

Bring a couple of ur jacked friends. He aint gona do **** and if he does u got witnesses.

[minime_moomey]

I think notifying the police ahead of time is the best bet. Fact of the matter is, if he attacks you with a weapon or not, and you attack back, especially with a weapon, you will be f***ed by the long d*** of the law! Technically you will be on his property, therefore trespassing which basically screws you no matter what you do. Not even self-defense is going to hold up in your favor...But good luck! I support you helping someone get out of an abusive relationship

[sharkall2003]

So, you're pissed that you're in a relationship with a woman that was cheating on her boyfriend? So, you've been a part of helping someone cheat and you expect him not to be mad? That's some pretty ******ed logic.

[Behemoth]

Don't have a gun license. I have hunting rifles but can't take them out of my truck really. I have a knife but he does too... I think I will notify the PD but it's going to take a few hours they can't be there the whole time I'm sure. Hopefully he just won't happen to show up and we can deal with it once he cools down with likely restraining orders and whatnot. On any other occassion I'd agree with RBB, but this isn't a situation where I'm playing hero and saving the chick. I'm just assisting the chick who is trying to help herself.

[Behemoth]

So, you're pissed that you're in a relationship with a woman that was cheating on her boyfriend? So, you've been a part of helping someone cheat and you expect him not to be mad? That's some pretty ******ed logic.

When did I say I was pissed? When did I say I didn't expect him to be mad?

You have some "pretty ******" reading comprehension my man. I am not pissed and I fully and entirely expect him to be mad.

[jAy_Dub]

Sharkall and RBB are right on.

What makes you think that someday this same situation wont happen to you? She cheated on her old b/f so why wouldnt she do it with you? Her excuse is he's abusive, but there is no doubt that she can make some excuse about you down the road and be reason enough in her mind to cheat again. My friend was in the same type of situation, and that bitch never changed, and she never will. Most women like that will be jumping from relationship to relationship cheating on every bf they have.

Overall just a bad situation to be involved in. Good luck though.

[sharkall2003]

When did I say I was pissed? When did I say I didn't expect him to be mad?

You have some "pretty ******" reading comprehension my man. I am not pissed and I fully and entirely expect him to be mad.

Maybe pissed wasn't the right word, but why would you even bring something like this to your situation? It makes not sense. Let alone, does doing more things that are going to aggravate him make sense. Why doesn't your "girl" go break it off with this guy and then have her family or a couple of her friends help her move out instead of you trying to intervene and only make things complicated.

[Brawl]

Let me help you bro ... she's a dips h * t ... any chick that stays with a dude that abuses them is a dips h * t ...I know she is because she hasnt called the cops on the guy ... because she could move her stuff out when he's sitting in jail . Or SHE could call the cops because HE has a history of abuse ...

See where I'm going . Dump her ... she isnt smart enouigh to change her address on a dude abusing her ... she's stupid .

Women have divorced mobsters , so I dont want to hear lame excuses .

[Behemoth]

Lol... her family AKA mother lives on the other side of the state 6 hours away and shes literally not allowed by him to have friends. PS. She hasn't told me he's abusive I've seen it, I used to live in a house with him. If I ever treat a girl half as bad as him I hope she cheats on me in a heartbeat

Besides, shes never even really cheated my dudes... just seeing me and talking and **** for the past month. Finally shes taking a step to leave him herself and I offer to help move her out and I'm doing something wrong? Lol... it's the internet I'm not responding to either of you again because I don't feel like arguing over petty **** like this.

I personally feel like what I'm doing is the right the thing. If you personally feel that what I'm doing is the wrong thing then I simply appreciate your good nature in looking out for someone you don't know. I've made my decision and if you disagree with it let me live with it.

Apart from that I hope I don't get knifed tomorrow so you try to say you told me so haha

[Stumprrp]

what an idiot, buy a shotgun and invite him over for beers, when he gets to the door tell him if he ever comes back you WILL blow his head off.

or..more realistically, be careful and watch your back.

[sharkall2003]

I've been seeing a girl whose in a relationship, but he's abusive so it really doesn't bother my conscience.

So, why haven't you just told her to break it off with him. And have her call the police?

[BilltheButcher]

Call the cops, or don't you have any buddies you can have come and watch your back? Hvae 4 or 5 guy come over and this guy doesn't stand a chance. Problem is this guy is gonna call the cops, saying she stole his stuff etc.etc.

Your better off calling the cops before hand and explain the situation and see what they can do to help the scenario, doesn't hurt.

[Behemoth]

Let me help you bro ... she's a dips h * t ... any chick that stays with a dude that abuses them is a dips h * t ...I know she is because she hasnt called the cops on the guy ... because she could move her stuff out when he's sitting in jail . Or SHE could call the cops because HE has a history of abuse ...

See where I'm going . Dump her ... she isnt smart enouigh to change her address on a dude abusing her ... she's stupid .

Women have divorced mobsters , so I dont want to hear lame excuses .

Apparently you don't know much about abusive relationships... to be very polite you should really do a very minor amount of research to see why chicks stay in them. apart from that shes been saving for a car so she could leave him and get to and from work when she does leave him... guess what happened now? ding.

I don't know where you came up with I was captain-save-a-ho because I've been seeing her and am helping her move out. I'd say her doing this **** on her own takes more maturity than I'll find in any other chick my age.

LIke I said to RBB and Sharkall. I'm not trying to fight and I'm not trying for sympathy, I'm more mature than that. You have your opinions and youre entitled to them. If what I said conveyed a situation youve seen then I honestly thank you for you concern (even if it was stated mildly rudely). If things go sour and I end up getting my world trashed then you also can say I told you so, I however will not do the same.

[Behemoth]

Call the cops, or don't you have any buddies you can have come and watch your back? Hvae 4 or 5 guy come over and this guy doesn't stand a chance. Problem is this guy is gonna call the cops, saying she stole his stuff etc.etc.

Your better off calling the cops before hand and explain the situation and see what they can do to help the scenario, doesn't hurt.

Thats probably what I'll do. I am a personal fan of law enforcement.

[MrWebb78]

if you really feel like this guy will try to assault you with some sort of weapon bring one of your own.

I disagree. The best solution would be to not show up at all.

To Behemoth; notify the police in advance and see if you can't have THEM on site to monitor this girl moving out.

[BilltheButcher]

Thats probably what I'll do. I am a personal fan of law enforcement.

Oh, and do not bring a knife. If he shows up and gets violent, get the F out of there. If you pull the knife and do anything, your going away for a long time.

[sharkall2003]

Don't bring a weapon, because that means it was planned and that will cause a lot of harm to you in court. Best case scenario is to have HER call the law enforcement agency in your district and have them see to it that she moves out and is safely escorted.

[Brawl]

I know about abusive relationships and women ... they're stupid for letting it continue ...you can pick all the studies of this and that you want in the end , they're stupid .