Girl situatuion.

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[MrWebb78]

how old are you?

[McIrish]

Why weren't you just honest with her in the first place about spending the night at your bud's apartment? Seems like you have some issues with honesty, bro.

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[Genacide]

It was never a thing of honesty it was just I mean I wasn't doing anything wrong so I didn't see the reason to make it a news story.

Thinking like that will end a relationship.

[VikingWarlord]

You don't love this girl.

EDIT: After rethinking it, not only do you not love her, you don't give a **** about this girl at all. When she drops your ass, don't come back here bitching about it.

[Unholy]

You don't love this girl.

[smokinHawk]

sounds like you were a jerk to her, she deserves better then you, hopefully she will dump you.
good luck bro.

[cphafner]

once you blow trust in any kind of relationship (not just with the opposite sex), it is very hard to earn back. Sounds like you might be screwed here. Learn a lesson from it. No reason to lie about trivial stuff.

[darthvader]

once you blow trust in any kind of relationship (not just with the opposite sex), it is very hard to earn back. Sounds like you might be screwed here. Learn a lesson from it. No reason to lie about trivial stuff.

I totally agree with cphafner trust is the most important thing in a relationship and once you lose that you'll most likely lose everything else.

[Bicster]

you have been caught lying twice. how many times have you not been caught? why should she trust you?

[Nik00117]

You sound like your young, forget about her move on and enjoy life. Plus you pretty much through all the trust you had away, I've seen 2 of my friends do that then piece back to the relationship, guess what happened afterwards? It fell apart, so don't even brother.

[biglift]

sounds like your not ready for a girl...

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[Jorge Sanchez]

I see two problems here.

1) She's controlling
2) You're a lying dirt bag.

Ah, to be young again.

[WBBIRL]

Trust is a big part (to me) of any relationship be it an intimate one or not. When I was seeing the last girl I was with I had that feeling of trust, like either of us could tell one another anything. Then again my friend just had that trust violated that his woman had maintained with him for over 2 years, they broke up after 2 years because she lied to him and it wasn't a little lie either.

Sounds like your very young and inexperienced with women and relationships. Losing the trust of your bf/gf/whatever is a good way to end things.

That and it sounds like you guys are into each others lives way too much at this point. I'll be damned if any woman I'm seeing will tell me what I can and can't do at this stage in my life.

[VikingWarlord]

We both trust each other alot but if you saw how good we are together lying about drinking with my friends twice is not all that bad. We never have really "fought". We're inseperable 99% of the time. I take her out to eat constantly and randomly call her just to tell her I love her and she does the same. She just doesn't want a party animal and i've been out drinking twice because all my friends are graduating and leaving my town this summer and I won't see them again. I'd do anything for her. I had the chance to move to the beach making 400 a week and I passed it up to stay here with her. if I don't love her I wouldn't be here.

Like most kids, you have absolutely no idea what love is. Everyone that's responded here is older and far more experienced than you are and there seems to be a consensus. Wonder why?

Lying to the woman you claim to love shows you don't respect her, especially if it's about something that's no big deal as you claim. There is no love without respect, junior.

[BigNic]

Like most kids, you have absolutely no idea what love is. Everyone that's responded here is older and far more experienced than you are and there seems to be a consensus. Wonder why?

Lying to the woman you claim to love shows you don't respect her, especially if it's about something that's no big deal as you claim. There is no love without respect, junior.

and trust

[Rush23hester]

Just be honest with her and you shouldn't have any troubles.

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[markdk86]

Don't lie to her, douche.

[d'Anconia]

I see several problems here. You're saying that you love her yet...
a.) You apparently aren't aware of which scenarios will make her mad and which ones won't.
b.) You were afraid to tell her that you drink. So essentially you don't feel that you can always tell her the truth... I don't think people try to hide things from someone they truly love.
c.) You say she doesn't want a party animal but what's that supposed to mean? If you ARE a party animals then she doesn't know you that well and is trying to change you. If you're NOT then she still doesn't seem to know that you're not a party animal, again meaning she doesn't know you very well.

I mean just in general it seems like you feel that you have to hide the truth from her so that right there already means there isn't much trust or honesty in the relationship. You openly lied to her and it's been my experience that people don't lie to people that they love and/or respect. I'd be surprised if this relationship didn't end up with more serious problems later on.

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[d'Anconia]

Sounds like she's insecure and has self-esteem issues. I'm confused as to where you DIDN'T lie to her... you told her you were still with the cop when you weren't.

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