hands and EYES

**nismodreams** · 03-20-2003 01:59 PM

To continue the subject of what women want or what bodypart they like in a guy, I've gotten "hands and eyes" as the answer repeatedly. This is the answer I get from MANY women of very different backgrounds....and different age groups as well. Though I have failed to understand why I'm going to break up the two and discuss various possibilities of why and how. Please add any ideas to the discussion from ur experience or knowledge...

Hands:

most probably because women like to be touched...

Eyes:

1.having a healthy pair of eyes states overall health?
2.having bright colourful eyes makes the person very attractive in general but this is a genetic trait(contacts are fake color...c'mon)
3.eye contact is usually the first contact between two people
4.though I have one glance at the face and like to spend next ten minutes looking at the body, women like you to look in the eye
this iss so true..
Usage: Gazing at another's eyes arouses strong emotions. Thus, eye contact rarely lasts longer than three seconds before one or both viewers experience a powerful urge to glance away. Breaking eye contact lowers stress levels (as measured, e.g., by breathing rate, heart rate, and sweaty palms).
5.I think eyes are a womens strongest tool to hint they're interested...but not neccessarily they can also see if you're sincere or not...I've learned over the years that if you can crack the code of that eye contact you would have noooo problem meeting and being with women...
I'm gonna share some of my experiences that brought me to this conclusion and if you have any please share'em...

a) I almost ask this girl out at work on friday night...casually tho just if she hada ne plans for the weekend was just curious....she comes back monday at work and when i'm talking to the boss she joins the conversation. I'm talking to the boss and shes stand on my front right side and I can tell shes looking at me...sidevisison..hehe. When I finally look at her she had her eyes wide open staring at me like shes gonna kill me???? stares for two more seconds and then looks away...she never looked at me like that before..

b)Got lucky with this blondie late last year. Went to see her on the third and last day(i was pretty sure last day...hehe...long story) she came down only for 10 minutes for a cigarette. But throughout the ten minutes she was only looking into my eyes. Like a curious study. Her jacket zipper was open and I remembered from two days ago that her tits were her best bodypart so naturally my eyes glazed a little south and she would immediately bring her face down, catch up to my eyes and then stand straight again...straight eye to eye....this happened a few times in those 10 minutes...i had some alcohol in my system but still....thats not fair she got me there..

c)I'm at a club and out of nowhere I look to my front floor and this girl is just standing there staring at me...stares for another second or two...big eyes...then looks away and never looks back..?? she looked mad like i did somethin to herl...??cuz when she was about to look away she kinda rolled her eyes...????..wtf?

d)The common scenario at a club you look at a girl lookin at you but as soon as you see her she turns away. happens again....happens again...3 or more times means shes interested?? but it happpened once about five time when this girl was with her boyfriend..wtf?? i didn't dare approach...

generally I suck at eye contact and straigh up feel uncomfortable specially with prolonged ones...but this the only language women seem to speak. Any input is appreciated...specially from the ladeez...

**Sledgehammer** · 03-20-2003 02:02 PM

stare deeply into her eyes and take control...

**nismodreams** · 03-20-2003 02:04 PM

Originally posted by Sledgehammer
stare deeply into her eyes and take control...

easier said than done..

**Strats** · 03-20-2003 02:05 PM

I have small hands, I hope women arn't looking for a guy with big hands. Hell, most womens hands are larger then mine. I measured my index finger, its 3.2 inches long.

**Praetorian** · 03-20-2003 02:06 PM

maybe you look like hell.

remember its women we are talking about here. Even Freud didnt figure them out.

**Tryska** · 03-20-2003 02:10 PM

Originally posted by Strats
I have small hands, I hope women arn't looking for a guy with big hands. Hell, most womens hands are larger then mine. I measured my index finger, its 3.2 inches long.

oh you poor thing.

**Y2A** · 03-20-2003 02:13 PM

Originally posted by Tryska

oh you poor thing.

LOL!

**Relentless** · 03-20-2003 02:14 PM

it's not how long your fingers are, mate

it's how fast they can

get your wallet out

**nismodreams** · 03-20-2003 02:22 PM

Originally posted by Callahan
it's not how long your fingers are, mate

it's how fast they can

get your wallet out

lol...good one...

**Y2A** · 03-20-2003 02:23 PM

Originally posted by Callahan
it's not how long your fingers are, mate

it's how fast they can

get your wallet out

Right you are!

**PeterParker** · 03-20-2003 02:29 PM

heres a tip for the guys, date a girl with small hands it will make your K**b look bigger when she holds it

**kAiXuan** · 03-20-2003 02:29 PM

Originally posted by Strats
I have small hands, I hope women arn't looking for a guy with big hands. Hell, most womens hands are larger then mine. I measured my index finger, its 3.2 inches long.

mine is like 3.5 inches, and i rarely meet a girl with bigger hands. Is your dating pool the wnba?

**Alex.V** · 03-20-2003 02:31 PM

Originally posted by PeterParker
K**b

"knob" isn't exactly blocked by the filter.

It's only dirty in that silly dialect our brethren across the seas use.

**DoubleGulp** · 03-20-2003 02:39 PM

Build muscles in your hands and make them bigger! It worked for that guy in 'The Big Hit'.

**PeterParker** · 03-20-2003 02:39 PM

is that a dig aimed at me Belial

**Saint Patrick** · 03-20-2003 07:58 PM

huhhuh you said "knob"

**kimpy225** · 03-20-2003 08:35 PM

*snickers*
guys hands are cool
so are there eyes
but i like the WHOLE guy
i love looking at a guy overall.
ill see him laying on the couch and its just PERFECT. and then ill jump next to him and lay with him.
so hmm.
i like guys arms and hands and legs and face and eyes
and etc
hands: yes i like to be touched. you can hold hands. a man can fix things with them. and i dunno hehe

**nismodreams** · 03-22-2003 11:46 AM

Originally posted by kimpy225

hands: yes i like to be touched. you can hold hands. a man can fix things with them. and i dunno hehe

umm you need anything fixed with these hands of mine??

**Wolverine** · 03-22-2003 11:54 AM

Originally posted by Saint Patrick
huhhuh you said "knob"

LOL hehehehe yeah he said "knob"

**Ritzol** · 03-22-2003 09:31 PM

I think 3.2" for a pinky is pretty darn long.

But...... it's really not the size of the hands/fingers that matter to women I don't think, well at least for me it isn't.

I look at the way a guy's fingers are built, and I don't know how to explain it really, but some guys have like "girly fingers"? I want a guy who's fingers are defined, and rough and tough. Yaaaaaa.

**WestyHeadbanger** · 03-22-2003 11:31 PM

I think I have girly fingers. Dammit.

They are pretty rough though but if I could work them out I would.

**Reinier** · 03-23-2003 03:02 AM

i have huge hands. not only are they very long, they are also very wide. my fathers are worse. they look like he digged a tunnel through mount everest with them so calloused. which is weird, cuz he lives a sedentary life. He was a dentist and hes notorious for his hands that go into your mouth and almost rip it just fitting there lol i get to hear about that when i say my last name in this little town all the time. anyway, my hands are roughening up nicely with the weights too.

**Reinier** · 03-23-2003 03:05 AM

Originally posted by WestyHeadbanger
I think I have girly fingers. Dammit.

They are pretty rough though but if I could work them out I would.

start doing stuff like fixing up cars or bikes and doing high volume back work without gloves.

**Strats** · 03-23-2003 09:15 PM

Damn, I measured again, I had my measurements off. My middle finger is 3.0 inches long on one hand, 3.1 on the other. Those are my longest fingers. My gf has similar sized hands. Seriously, this is messed up. I have size 11 feet, 5'11, but tiny hands.

Fingers have their uses

**Strats** · 03-23-2003 09:18 PM

.. "he has small hands *giggles*" I got that from a friends mom. How weird is that? Her mom was just being mean, hell, most women react that way when they see my hands.

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