Contrast Training for Size
Latest Article

Contrast Training for Size

Contrast training is a unique way to optimize results. Read this article by Lee Boyce about how to incorporate it into your training to pack on lean muscle mass.

By: Lee Boyce Added: March 25th, 2013
More Recent Articles
An Interview with Marianne Kane of Girls Gone Strong
By: Jordan Syatt
What Supplements Should I be Taking? By: Jay Wainwright
Bench Like a Girl By: Julia Ladewski
Some Thoughts on Building a Big Pull By: Christopher Mason
Shoulders Like Boulders
By: Jay Wainwright

Facebook Join Facebook Group       Twitter Follow on Twitter       rss Subscribe via RSS
+ Reply to Thread
Page 1 of 2 1 2 LastLast
Results 1 to 25 of 31
  1. #1
    Just trying to learn
    Join Date
    Oct 2001
    Location
    Washington, IL
    Posts
    189

    Fighting over a girl?

    Under any circumstances, is it acceptable for 2 guys to get in a fight over a girl? In my situation, I've been seeing a girl for a couple months. Unfortunately, this other guy has been seeing her for almost 2 years. Lately, he's been a real dick, and feels he needs to be a smart@ss to me. I've basically told him that he gets 3 strikes, which means the next time he says anything to me, I'm kicking his ass. I have a feeling the girl is gonna be pissed, but I gave him fair warning. So, this goes out to the girls. How pissed will this girl be?

  2. #2
    Drunk and Obnoxious Strats's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2002
    Location
    St Johns NF
    Posts
    278
    Fighting is a big no-no. All the girls I've known have told me its a real turnoff to see men scrap it out. If it appears to be jealousy or anything major like that, you might be pretty much screwed with that girl.
    Philosophy is to the real world as masturbation is to sex - Karl Marx

  3.    Support Wannabebig and use AtLarge Nutrition Supplements!



  4. #3
    One crazy MOFO/Mail man
    Join Date
    Sep 2002
    Location
    T dot
    Posts
    2,295
    OK wtf... your both dating the same girl?
    Why are you dating a girl that is with another guy in the first place? He has been with her for 2 years and you only 2 months... What makes you more important then him? Doesn't he have the right to be angry with you?

    Regardless I would still kick his ass for being a smart ass.
    w00t

  5. #4
    Strongman
    Join Date
    Jun 2002
    Posts
    193
    You may be bigger than this guy, but small people use violence to resolve things. Unless this guy attacks you, be the bigger man. And to answer your question about her, she will respect that. 98% of girls are turned off by that behavior.
    Four-Time World's Strongest Man

  6. #5
    Just trying to learn
    Join Date
    Oct 2001
    Location
    Washington, IL
    Posts
    189
    yeah, I understand she will be turned off. But, I'm not gonna let this guy talk to me the way he is trying to. And it isn't like we meant for her to be dating 2 guys. She and I have been friends for a while, but it got a little more serious a couple months ago.

  7. #6
    Strongman
    Join Date
    Jun 2002
    Posts
    193
    Why aren't you going to let him talk to you the way his trying to???
    Four-Time World's Strongest Man

  8. #7
    Hungry BCC's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2001
    Location
    Indiana
    Posts
    0
    She's dating two guys now. What makes you think she won't do it in the future? If she's letting this go on, it sounds like she's the type to welcome drama with open arms. Lose her.
    Last edited by BigChaseyChase; 04-06-2003 at 12:22 AM.
    "As far as drugs were concerned, all my bodybuilding heroes were on everything but roller skates."


    In Memphis, it is illegal for a woman to drive by herself, unless a man is walking or running infront of the vehicle, waving a red flag in order to warn approaching pedestrians and motorists.

  9. #8
    Mystic Eric
    Guest
    Originally posted by BigChaseyChase
    She's dating two guys now. What makes you think she won't do it in the future? If she's letting this go on, it sounds like she's the type to welcome drama with open arms. Lose her.
    :withstupi

  10. #9
    Player Hater PowerManDL's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2001
    Location
    Ft. Lauderdale, FL
    Posts
    7,850
    That's some straight bull****.

    You're a chump for even messing with her.
    Vin Diesel has a fever.. and the only prescription is more cowbell.

    Budiak: That girl I maced
    Budiak: macked
    Budiak: heh maced
    Budiak: I wish

    ShmrckPmp5: a good thing people can't fire guns through the computer...your ass would have been shot years ago

    Y2A 47: youre smooth as hell
    Y2A 47: thats why you get outta tickets, and into panties

    galileo: you're a fucking beast and I hate you
    galileo: hate

    assgrabbers are never subtile, they will grabb ass whereever they go,public or not, I know the type, because I am one. - Rock

  11. #10
    the stone cold stunner Ironman8's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2003
    Location
    Palmdale, C.A
    Posts
    2,572
    Are you sure it's a turn-off to girls when you fight over them? I thought they like the attention.
    You kill me in a dream, you better wake up and apologize....

  12. #11
    Wannabebig Member
    Join Date
    Feb 2003
    Location
    Dallas
    Posts
    83
    The ONLY reason to fight over a girl is if you are protecting her from being raped, literally. And yes, if she is dating 2 of you at same time then her ego would welcome the 2 of you fighting over her.
    Veni, Vidi, Vici

  13. #12
    Do that voodoo that he do
    Join Date
    Apr 2002
    Location
    Bangor, ME, United States
    Posts
    4,173
    If you fight with this guy (which I don't support), then it'll be between him and you. You might as well kiss the girl good-bye. She doesn't want to fight a Neanderthal knuckle-dusting guy. Most girls like guys that have the capability of doing that, but not guys that do. If she does like you as a brawler, then she's probably not the kind of girl that you want to date, because you're going to find yourself in this situation a lot.

    Either way, if she can get two guys to fight over her, she'll probably try.

    Also, like Chase said: If she's been dating you for two months, but dating him for two years... Be prepared for that to happen again. Something fishy is going on there, and it isn't all of the bad jokes I could make.

  14. #13
    WBBs motivational Speaker Rock's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2001
    Location
    Between a girls ties!
    Posts
    4,593
    First of Slap her, then slap him, than slap her mother for the hell of it.
    A big thanks to all my friends in the USA, I am deeply grateful for your hospitality and kindness.

  15. #14
    Soon to be lean... Joe Black's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2000
    Location
    Cambridge, England
    Posts
    10,963
    lol
    http://www.wannabebig.com/logo/alnlogo_black.gif

    AtLarge Nutrition Supplements – Get the best supplements and help support Wannabebig!

    Hypertrophy Cluster Training - HCT-12 - If you want big gains in size and strength, huge decreases in body fat, or both - check out HCT-12.

    Can I have some lean muscle & strength please? – My Training Journal

  16. #15
    Administrator chris mason's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2001
    Location
    Charlottesville, VA
    Posts
    12,278
    Originally posted by Rock
    First of Slap her, then slap him, than slap her mother for the hell of it.

    LOL!

  17. #16
    WBB OG Silverback's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2002
    Location
    London, England
    Posts
    1,086
    lol @ Rock!

    From my experience fighting should be a last resort, a couple of years back i got into a fight with a guy at a rival school and i nailed him. But about 2 months later me and two of my mates were doing the usual 3 mile walk back to my village from a night on the town, and we got jumped on by about 12-15 of them and got smashed up big style, damn it taught me a lesson.

    Ask your self this question, is she worth it? from the sounds of things she aint
    Last edited by Silverback; 04-06-2003 at 09:02 AM.
    The only limits are the one's you place on yourself...

  18. #17
    Banned Praetorian's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2001
    Location
    7th level
    Posts
    5,014
    no need to fight over chicks. its not like they are worth it, unless they are family.

  19. #18
    Just trying to learn
    Join Date
    Oct 2001
    Location
    Washington, IL
    Posts
    189
    You all make very valid points. But, I don't see it as me fighting to get her......I wanted to break his neck even when I was just friends with the girl, cuz he doesn't treat her very well. And just recently has it become a matter of him thinking he's tough.

  20. #19
    Senior Member
    Join Date
    Jul 2002
    Posts
    1,561
    Ok, I may have missed something because I ddin't read the entire post. But, if two of you are dating the same girl..... realize this, and are fighting over her. It would seem like she is really a shallow person to even be considering DATING two guys at the same time.. I mean... I dunno.. that doesn't make sense. Being friends, hanging out casually with guys while dating someone is fine, but dating 2 guys? Okkk...... I have nothing to say about that. If I were one of the guys I'd be happy to let the other guy have the broad.

  21. #20
    . Delphi's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2001
    Location
    Texas
    Posts
    5,023
    What Ritzol said. Whichever guy loses her is the real winner.

  22. #21
    MulletII - AKA Ninja Boner Gyno Rhino's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2001
    Location
    FFFA Headquarters
    Posts
    11,468
    No kiddin'. BTW, aren't YOU the one who's invading here? He's been seein' her for 2 years. Why didn't you let that relationship end before sticking your head in (maybe literally)?
    Founding Member and CEO of the FFFA

    "All that matters is beauty on the inside! Outside beauty doesn't matter!"
    ~This is something ugly people say to feel better about themselves...

    "Strength and size don't matter! It's not fair to judge training knowledge based on strength and size!"
    ~This is something wussy people say to feel better about themselves...

    Pearls of Wisdom...


    Resident Ninja Demon (with a pet Radioactive Sloth) and SchlonkeyMaster of WBB!

    Rock is my 'Big Viking Brother', and not in a homo-esque way.

    And no COLON jokes, bastards!

  23. #22
    "COUNT CRACKULA" Bam Bam's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2001
    Location
    oklahoma
    Posts
    2,814
    i think a gurl feels safe with a man who can fight but is repelled from one that actually fights i agree with the others drop her and kick his ass for actin up
    Blocka Blocka

    I am AMINAL

  24. #23
    Ecoli die
    Join Date
    May 2002
    Location
    Colorado!
    Posts
    741
    I don't see why people think it's wrong for her to date two guys. It's not like anyone here has said "we're exclusive!" right?

    If you don't like him that much and he doesn't like you that much, why don't you just avoid each other?

    Or maybe I misunderstood. Is she literally dating you both at the same time? Like all three of you go to the movies together or something?
    Now in pain, only working out the walking sticks.

  25. #24
    Simply Devious Rastaman's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2001
    Location
    Vancouver, BC
    Posts
    1,595
    This situation is confusing.
    "The only sin which we never forgive in each other is difference of opinion."
    -Ralph Waldo Emerson


    Word.

  26. #25
    Confused
    Join Date
    Nov 2002
    Posts
    836
    It ain't worth it let her go.

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
© 2010 WannabebigAdvertisePrivacy PolicyWannaBeBig.comArchiveTopAtLarge Nutrition