I think if you ask "if you went out with somebody else" then it would sound like you had somebody in mind. Which might upset her. I would ask her if she would be more comfortable keeping things at a friendship level until she had more time to focus on something more.
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Stand there for a few minutes, then pace back and forth a lot, huff and puff, wait until everybody's looking. Approach the bar. Back off. Approach it again. Back off. Get some water. Chalk up. Approach the bar again. Then spray some more chalk around. Wait until people start losing interest. When nobody's looking, pick it a little off the floor, and slam it down. Jump up and yell "LIGHT WEIGHT BABY". Then give high fives all around. - Belial
Just go out with somebody else and let her ****ing deal with it. She said she doesnt want to go out with you...what, she thinks you're going to wait around until SHE is ready? That shows a complete lack of respect for you as a person and a complete lack of respect for your emotional (and physical) needs.
I'm not saying that she does expect you to wait but in my very, very humble and bitter opinion, if a girl says that she doesnt want a relationship with you, it means you can go out with someone else, regardless of her role in your life.
Originally Posted by Budiak
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Very well put, PERIOD. Don't let her play your azz.
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I wouldn't ask permission. If she stated she just wants to be friends then do your own thing. If your really serious about her I would hold off screwing anybody though for a little bit. She might get jealous and decide she wants more. But once you screw another chick you might have gone to far. Then again I usually don't turn down sex, and talk is cheap. So in reality I would probablty screw other girls and jsut lie. That way it would be like going out with her. JK.
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honestly i would have a few quick relationships with girls-that she doesnt know- and if she does want more, just pretend nothing happened- it would be unfair of her to cage and shackle the mighty penis and she knows that... so **** around in moderation but be ready for a relationship
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Originally Posted by bodyOriginally Posted by kevinstarke
Problem is your asking permission. Whose the man in this relationship, or lack of? She stated what she wants, call her on it.
Though if you really want her you can try to make her jealous, very risky, or undermine her. Stick around and try weaseling your way into the hen house.
oh and i think i speak for everyone when i saw that all this help we offer is on the assumation that she's nothing seriously special? not "special" and not "really special" i mean she's not "seriously special" right?
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Originally Posted by bodyOriginally Posted by kevinstarke
I nominate Budiak to have his very own personal relationship advice column.
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LOL, I 2nd that motion. All in favour...Originally Posted by Maki Riddington
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From here out, all relationship questions are to be addressed to teh Budiak.
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So you guys were friends then you got realy horny and wanted to hit it. It's taken you a long time to actually hit it. You finaly hit it like a week ago and now your bored...? Am I close? So now when you try to break up with her to bang some one else you will not be friends anymore. She will hate you.
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I think Rock should handle the relationship questions.
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Why was the original post edited out?
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because, now that things are settled and figured out
I don't want anyone I know/nows me/ coming here and reading this
I really DO appreciate the replys though.
Even SHE comes here!!!