i dont know what i have...

[Brotherofiron]

i am soo scared...i cant eat or sleep...and im cryin like my life is gonna be over...

recently i noticed this blister on the shaft of my penis...it didnt hurt at all, although it hurts sometimes when i pee...it hurts i little when im almost done peeing...the blister looks like a large pimple, and i popped it with a heated needle cause im a dumbass.

im so scared and i dont know what to do, i sit in school and cant focus on my work, all i can ever think about is how my life is over and how ill never be able to have sex.and speaking of sex...I HAVE NEVER HAD SEX, I AM A VIRGIN, AND I HAVE NEVER HAD ORAL SEX EITHER.

but i think that i got herpes from my step mother, she has it and i think that i caught it like a cold or something.

ANY HELP WOULD BE APPRECIATED!!!!!!!
im really putiin myself out there guys, please help.

[tholian8]

Calm down, if you can. I don't know all that much about penii, but is it possible that it could just be a pimple in a REALLY unfortunate place? In any case, you need to get a pro to look at it, to ease your mind if nothing else, and to treat you if need be. You can give yourself a nice skin infection by popping blisters and pimples regardless of where they are on your body. Usually if you call an STD clinic and explain what's going on they will see you quickly and for little or no fee.

If there is truly no way you could have gotten this from sexual contact, then your future sex life is probably going to be just fine.

[Built]

Nice post Tholian.

And you absolutely cannot catch Herpes like a cold.

[Brotherofiron]

yeah but i have the symptoms...and there is no way that i got this from sexual contact

[Built]

You CAN be born with it.

See your doctor.

[Brotherofiron]

i dont know what to do...if i tell my mom, she will never look at me the same way again...and odds are that my stepdad will be all protective over my little half bro, sayin that he doesnt want him to catch it, i just want to die, the only thing that keeps me goin is my lifting

[tholian8]

AFAIK, there are still some places in the US where teens can go to get anonymous and confidential exams/treatment. Call up Planned Parenthood--I'm not kidding--and explain to them what your symptoms are, and if they can't see you in their own facility they will be able to point you in the right direction to get this taken care of.

You CAN'T sit on this. It's frightening, but you have to get it checked out.

[Sidior]

I agree totally with tholian8, going to see someone about it is never fun but it will ease your mind.....Im sure your alot better off than you think

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Youll be fine. Get it checked out and dont worry so much. Its very possible its just a pimple and youre just paranoid.

[Brotherofiron]

thanks guys for the advice but...i still have no i dea what to do...im just a wreck right now

[getfit]

thanks guys for the advice but...i still have no i dea what to do...im just a wreck right now

i think tholian gave you that answer

[Brotherofiron]

ok...ok...i think im gonna have to tell my mom, and i am going to have to go and get tested...this is going to be the hardest thing ive ever had to do

[Built]

ok...ok...i think im gonna have to tell my mom, and i am going to have to go and get tested...this is going to be the hardest thing ive ever had to do

Why? You've not done anything wrong.

Unless... unless you aren't being straight with us here.

At any rate, get it checked out. You don't have to tell your mom first if you don't want to. But go see a doc.

[Brotherofiron]

i am being completely honest

and i cant see a doctor without telling my mom, i maybe 16 but i dont have a car yet

[tholian8]

You have no public transportation you can use? (Entirely possible in N. America.) Failing that, do you have a trusted friend who can drive you?

[Brotherofiron]

i didnt think about that...i will do some research and find a std testing center

[monotone]

if you are 16 and never had any sex or whatever, i dont see how it could be an STD

[jbarba]

dude its probably a pimple. If you were born w/ an std you would have noticed it before. Your probably depressed and crying all the time because you are 16. Its a tough age. But if you are really sad you should talk to like a counseler or something. Its confidential and it does mot make you a freak.

[Jabberwocky]

I agree with the pimple theory. Man up, put some neosporin on it and dont think about fire when you pee. You will be fine in a few days.

[Brotherofiron]

thanks guys, ive been off lifting for a week, and without the iron my emotions run high like a panzy b1tch. i just did a brutal leg day, and i came out smileing...i was walkin a little funny, but i feel a little better.

[Shark]

Allright, first things first, what the hell is all this whining about. You haven't had sex!!! You do not have an STD therefor an STD test is not what you need. Both men and women can get pimples, bumps, rashes, etc. on any part of their body. This does not mean you have anything wrong with you. It could be a pimple, a blister, a small spider or bug bite, etc. There are many possibilities. IT IS NOT HERPES. Your symptoms are not like that of herpes.

Everyone else seems to think you need to go see a physician but seriously, if it doesn't hurt, isn't infected, and goes away in a few days don't waste your time and money.

[Built]

Sorry - I wasn't thinking money. I'm in Canada.

[PizDoff]

Plugged/clogged sebaceous gland.
I'm not saying anymore.
*Cough*


Very good mature advice otherwise on this thread, I second it.

[Allie]

Planned Parenthood or your local health department is your best bet to find a confidential Dr to see. Both usually base their fees on a sliding scale so it will be little or no charge. Also they can not bill your insurance if you tell them that you do not want your parents to know. It really isn't a big deal they will answer all of your questions

[Gyno Rhino]

90% of guys have had a pimple or other bump on their penis that scared them for a minute or two.

Since you've had no sexual contact, it's likely just a pimple. If you really need to see someone, see your GP.