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Kinda an Embarassing sexual Problem
Never had a problem my whole life. Works fine, fine everyday for the better part of ten years....
Yet, ive been seeing this chick and twice in a row, it was a no-play day (if you know what I mean). I just started seeing this girl, and this proboly doesnt look good to her. I really dont understand it, ive done it without her, but Things start off good then go down the crapper. I dont really understand it. I think I get to nervous around her, as cliche as this sounds I like her alot and she is older then me by quite a bit.
This was very hard to post, we are hanging out thursday night, and lets just say if its a no-play day again im gonna be beyond embarassed.
Any advice/help would be VERY VERY VERY appreciated...
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Totally normal, happens to every guy at some point. Since she's older, I guarantee you she's seen this happen before.
Don't let it freak you out. You're just nervous.
And sex is about more than just your penis, okay? Do something else - there's a world of possibilities for you to start with.
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i had this problem the other night... but it was due to too much alcohol. I could barely stand, not to mention it even attempting to stand up.
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my brother was dating a girl much older then him and he was very nervous about the whole situation but she seemed to understand as they talked about it! and things went fine after that
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Dude that happens to me with every chick I'm with the first time or two because of anxiety. Unless I'm taking something to help out in that department. I wouldn't worry about it, unless the girl takes offense to it.
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Just relax and don't think about it on the next date! Just free your mind and be creative. It will help you a lot. You can talk to her just like Getfit said. It happens to everyone of us at least once. Don't worry about it.
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Yeah, Time to embarass myself some more lol, but I havent "been" with a chick for over a year so Im a little rusty in the whole area...
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don't worry about it honestly! i'm sure things will workout for you!
Originally Posted by CanadianBad
Last edited by getfit; 05-17-2005 at 05:40 PM.
You will soon see Getfit in OngII Flying Knee Thingys of Doom see if the feisty greek can survive the kicks of Steel Leg From Shaolin Soccer,Dim Mak(def touch) from ChungLee,and Flying Crane by Daniel-san-El Pietro
Spray it with windex greek!-the famous El Pietro
You be quiet or i'll clean and press your narrow francophone self-Callahan
Lift for gains,not glory.Control your ego and the weight
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it's nerves man
happened to me a few times
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A glass of wine might be able to help you relax.
Watch it though - several will put "little CanadianBad" RIGHT to sleep.
Maybe smoke one? That seems to help with anxiety for some.
And, I might as well say it, if you're afraid you're gonna "pop" too fast, well, there's this thing you can do that helps you relax...
Maybe a few hours before the big date, you can, um, try to relax a bit and let off some steam.
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Good advice so far people.
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In that case, she's not worth it. It is nerves though, you'll have to work through it. Originally Posted by PowerManDL
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This is where your anxiety is coming from man, dont sweat it. Its all in your head, performance anxiety is normal. Next time youre with her just go for it and blow your load early, then youll both know there is no problem with your plumbing Originally Posted by CanadianBad
. Talking to her about how you fell about her will make her understand the anxiety too, as well as probably flatter the hell out of her. Win win situation.
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Sometimes it just happens man, no shame in it. The little fella is just nervous, that's all
maybe you should have a drink or two (dont get drunk fool, just one or two!) and that'd help a tad with the anxiety, loosen you up a little.
If your winky doesn't work, explain to me what's wrong with just using your tongue for an hour or so? I'm sure she'd *love* that. If I ever experience THAT problem, oral sex always keeps her happy, and sometimes it even gets my guy going a little bit.
Good luck dude, hope all goes well.
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Originally Posted by Built
Your terminology cracks me up. Good advice though.
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Haha. I didn't think the women knew our secret tricks!! Originally Posted by Built
I'm still young and I hope this never happens to me, I have the oppossite problem... a girl says something sexual or hugs me a little too close and suddenly I need to sit down for a minute or so...
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I love it when I have this effect on a guy. Originally Posted by AKraut
It's just fun!
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Yeah, fun for you maybe. I'd much rather have a little moisture rather than sprouting a limb you can see from across the room, I'm kinda like Ron Burgundy in Anchorman...
"I've got a situation here and I'm walking it off.."Last edited by AKraut; 05-19-2005 at 11:42 AM.
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Ha ha ha AK. I think i have the same problem as you.
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Yup, what AK said sounds familar. It is so easy for girls, they can hide thier 'excitment' fairly easily. Guys have a much harder time, especially if we are unfortunate enough to get caught wearing boxers. Yikes, that sucks.
Some girls find it funny, but you never as a guy want to be the unattractive guy with the woody from some hawt girl who just finds it gross.Victory belongs to the most persevering.
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I can see the situation where a girl is coming onto you and you get a little excited. However, if you're getting a hard-on just looking at a girl across the room, I think you need to get a little self control. Originally Posted by Ironminded
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Or do some more, ah, "relaxing" at home.
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If youre older and experienced.....agree. If youre a teenager who either A) has never had any sexual contact, or B) JUST STARTED having (A), i give you a free pass. Pop wood all you want whenever you want. Hell im 27 with plenty of epxerience, and if the wind blows my junk the wrong way ill get wood. I just strut around proudly! Originally Posted by Drai's
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I didn't catch how old you were. In any case, it's almost certainly just anxiety. Like others have suggested, have a drink or two....but don't go overboard on the alcohol. That could work against you as well. Originally Posted by CanadianBad
If you have a good relationship with your primary care doctor, you could also hit him up for some samples of viagra, cialis, etc. Again, it's very unlikely you have any serious problem causing erectile dysfunction. But having that medicine in your system for the next couple "encounters" would boost your confidence and get you back on track.I know you're half-crazy, but I wish you'd go all the way.
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SOMETIMEs nerves will also prevent you from coming once you get hard. This used to happen to me the first few times I had sex.If this happens just make like a chick and fake it. If your in a rubber( as you should be) just get it off and get rid of it quick. She will never know that you didnt come. it is necessary to do this sometimes to make sure the girl knows you enjoyed herself. But likely if this chick is older than she is confident as realizes this **** happens and will be very understanding.
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