Alright so I am a freshman college, and I'm going to school with this girl who I have known since fourth grade. Like we are best friends basically and she is dating my friend who I have known since like 7th or 8th grade. We've been at school for about 8 weeks now and we hang out all the time. Like we've had some of the deepest conversations I've ever had with anyone, and I've told her things that I hadn't told anyone else, and she's told me things that she says only her boyfriend knows; so I mean we've become really close. The problem is I've fallen for her, pretty bad. We hang out all the time together whether it is the weekend or just a week night, and I know I am not jumping to conclusions because I've thought this over for about two to three weeks now. Her boyfriend goes to school about three hours away, and I am really good friends with him too, and I know she doesn't feel the same way I do because she has told me she thinks he is the one for her(they have been dating for about three-four yrs). Plus she told me the other night that she thinks she might act too flirty around me(which she does, sometimes) and just wanted me to make sure I knew she wasn't leading me on, which I said yeah I know that to. Anyways, does anyone have any advice, I've fallen pretty bad for her, I enjoy her company, and I dont know, there is just something about her that I never really noticed, because we didnt hang out near as much back home as we do now. So do I tell her? Let it go? I mean right now neither of those options sounds appealling to me b/c i know she prolly doesn't feel the same way, and plus it'll just be really awkward and I lose possibly the best true friend I've ever had in my life. Yet on the other hand not telling her is killing me on the inside. Any suggestions or advice would be greatly appreciated, I'm just so lost, and really didn't expect this to happen(not that I think it's a bad thing).