My goal is to get her back at some point but I don't want to be taken advantage of in the process.
We were together 8 months. She broke up with me. Said she loved me but wasn't in love. She calls and says she wants to be friends but not be all "lovey dovey" with me while she "figures out what she wants".
I love her and I want to be with her. But hanging out with her as just friends is so tough.
What's my best move at this point?
Continue hanging out with her as friends while I talk to other girls on the side? I figure she is probably seeing someone else as well but I can't confirm it. I do know that there is someone interested in her. She gets pissey when she thinks I'm with other girls.
Or do I call her and say look, I can't do the just friends thing with you. If you ever want to get back together call me, and maybe I won't be with someone and we can see about working things out.
What's my move?
I don't want to push her away by making her feel I don't care about her but at the same time it's hard for me to sit idle and not explore other girls! I can't wait forever!