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The Five Biggest Contradictions in Fitness

Itís no secret that when people contradict themselves, it has the effect of making the flaws in their actions or statements seem glaringly obvious. But what about when WE ourselves get caught contradicting ourselves by someone else?

By: Nick Tumminello Added: January 6th, 2014
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    your falling for her??
    looks like girl trouble to me
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    If your afraid to hurt her, your afraid to love her. Not hurt in the sense of physical hurt, but emotional hurt and mental hurt. Lying can ease pain, therefore is not condusive to love, the truth can hurt, whatever it may be, but the truth is important in a loving relationship.

    It sounds as if she has a fixation on her ex, of course this is only deduced from your comments. If she cannot accept you as she did her ex, then she is not completely over him.

    Oh, and if you are "falling" in love with her, then the feeling of excitement will wear off in a week or so, and you may not like each other after then. Stand in love instead. Make a conscious decision to lover her, and to give to her (not material things, but yourself). If you cannot do that, then what you are feeling is lust.
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    Re: my mistakes (relationship)

    Originally posted by frankm007
    1) first time we we're joking around, and i playfully stuck my middle finger out at her... she got really upset and hurt (how can i do that)... i appologized and that was that...
    my g/f and i are always calling each other loser/jerk/bastard/b-tch etc all those loving names but once she did something that annoyed me and out of my mouth i called her a c**ksucker.....i dont even know why i said it but i had crossed the line. she was more than a little mad
    'you cant avoid confrontation in life. it just makes things more trouble down the road. sometimes you have to look at the bull and say "f--k you bull" and grab that bull by the horns'

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    Re: Re: my mistakes (relationship)

    Originally posted by McBain
    i called her a c**ksucker
    *laugh* I always find this funny. Why is the girl so offended? Is it such a bad thing (usually true, too) to call a chick a ****sucker? I mean c'mon. Call me a ****eater, see if I get ticked. Geez. Women. Go figure.
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    Originally posted by Xg74
    If your afraid to hurt her, your afraid to love her. Not hurt in the sense of physical hurt, but emotional hurt and mental hurt. Lying can ease pain, therefore is not condusive to love, the truth can hurt, whatever it may be, but the truth is important in a loving relationship.


    this si an amazing bit of verbiage. thank you.
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    Stop overthinking things If you have to think too hard about everything you say to avoid "mistakes," things will get boring, quick. Not to say that you should just spout off whatever comes to mind, but almost. If your personalities click, it shouldnt matter.
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    Originally posted by kAiXuan
    your falling for her??
    looks like girl trouble to me
    I agree. Those little things that she is sensitive about will get worse, and you will find yourself constantly apologizing for stupid things.

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    I think she gets to hurt to fast over nothing......
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    Show me a woman that doesn't.......

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    so true so true

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    I think she's trying to get you where she wants you....

    just my opinion though, I could be wrong.

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    be lucky you got a girl, I am 18 and rotting up like a dead man inside my head, I have tried absolutley everything and anything, the only reason I am not blowing my brains out is for my parents.
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    only reason i dun got a girl is cus i dun wanna bring anyone else into my screwed up life yet. i would like to pull myself together first. Your not alone rock.

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    Originally posted by Rock
    be lucky you got a girl, I am 18 and rotting up like a dead man inside my head, I have tried absolutley everything and anything, the only reason I am not blowing my brains out is for my parents.
    Jesus Christ man.

    Relax.

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    Originally posted by Neil


    Jesus Christ man.

    Relax.
    Aye. Rocky baby, relax man. Girls arent all this life has to offer. Youll find someone, worry not. It will probably happen when you least expect it too.

    frankm007 - dont worry so much. I do the same thing, worrying about what i said and how she took it, and its just lame. If your so worried about being who you are around a girl, then thats probably not a girl you want to get with. but, what do i know..not much really.

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    frankm007: is this girl the 17 year old girl that you were talking about before?

    rock: dude, relax man.

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    Originally posted by Rock
    be lucky you got a girl, I am 18 and rotting up like a dead man inside my head, I have tried absolutley everything and anything, the only reason I am not blowing my brains out is for my parents.
    Maybe you are trying too hard.

    Stupid and selfish reason to kill yourself, too. There's a lot more to life than that.
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    heh he's always like that.

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    Oh and frank, I didn't really understand any of your posts... they were kinda confusing. It just seems that you're over analyzing though.

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    ahh, youre right, I am gonna put the money aside that I get in the armey and save up for a nice russian hooker.
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    Or you can not worry about it and just enjoy your life, Rock. You and I both know that there's much more to life than chicks. Sure, they're great, and for some people they're absolutely necessary, but at my and your age (18 for you, 20 for me), there are plenty of things more worth worrying about...such as your future, your bodybuilding, etc.

    frank, she sounds kind of immature to me. Are you absolutely sure that you want to get deeper into this? Think about it. Are the things that you're having to put up with now going to be the things that you want to put up with for a while? Things like that usually get worse. You can't really "train" a girl to not do that anymore, and you shouldn't anyway. You shouldn't get involved with a person that you have to "train" in any way at all.

    Girls do worry over little insignificant things very often, yes. But give them some credit: hardly any, in the absence of weird psychological issues, worry over the things that you say she worries over. Flicking her off and that hurts her? Man, I dated a girl once that got REALLY upset when I told her "fvck you!" in a very joking way. That girl was mentally unstable. Yours may not be, but she might cause you to really resent her later on if she does this a lot.

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    Originally posted by Rock
    ahh, youre right, I am gonna put the money aside that I get in the armey and save up for a nice russian hooker.
    lol. thats the spirit, rock.

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    Dude.....if she's getting that irate over stupid **** like that, take a lesson-- she's either got some deep-rooted issue that she's attempting to hide from you, or she's just ****ed up in general.

    Either way, run as fast as you can.
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