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    Have any of you guys (refering to males here) ever wondered why the hell you even bother tryin to find a girl? I mean..what the hell is the point? You try... .you go out of your way to be nice even if its not your nature and STILL they play mind games with you. For instance I was supposed to hook up with this hot ass chick today and she got stuck at work. Then she said she'd call me and she didn't. WTF?? I"m serious... I'm tired of this.. I know I'm a nice guy and what the hell has it got me??? No-Fooking-where! Ah hell.....

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    Suck it up your pu$$Y..LMAO..j/k bro
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    Dont go looking so hard...they will come to you, and you will know it when you see "The Girl" Till then, just focus on training and getting bigger. Or are you just like so horny and cant get laid??LOL
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    Dude, relax and don't take **** so serious. Chicks hate up tight self consious(sp?) guys. Just chill!

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    Ok, so I was pretty ****in buzzed when I wrote this.. so do me a favour... Instead of rippin on me (Buff) give me your honest opinions on the subject. Tell me what you've experienced or dealt with.
    Last edited by Spiderman; 07-07-2001 at 10:17 PM.

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    You've gotta let it come to you...

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    Tell me about it. I look pretty, but my game is a little rough. it means I got my foot in the door already (never have a problem getting looks or the first line....)

    But yeah, I have a tendency to shoot myself in the foot. i think my problem is that I'm not ballsy enough...I hesitate.

    So, yeah, my advice would be..... carpe diem.

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    man, being a nice guy will get u NOWHERE!!!
    u need to be a man, not a nice guy, gurls say they want a nice guy all the time but that is all just a scam. Y u ask, cuz who do u see them boning the guy who treats them like dirt. im not saying u have to abuse women what im sayin is that u gotta stop being dependent on women, when they see that u have become a true man.

    try this, neglect her for a while, she'll start to wonder if u still like her, then flood her with attention, then neglect, she'll be always thinking about u then.
    see, men can play games too!

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    You shouldn't have sent her those flowers. tuttut

    Sorry bro', had to do it.

    You'll find her man. Hell, I find a few every week.

    Just meet a girl at the gym on the treadmills...don't be all desperate and forward about it, get to talking to her, she'll see you're a nice guy, and maybe will even ask you out....

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    Oh. Forgot to mention.

    At least you don't get ditched for no reason at all, twice in a row! (Not by the same girl, of course.) - Well I guess there IS a reason behind it. Mainly being, I suck.

    I am never putting my neck out for another relationship, ever. So ya, don't feel bad.

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    ummm...can I comment or has this become a chicks suck, boys only, drumming circle??

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    How about this, she isn't the right girl for you. That is all. She isn't worth any more of your time. There are many fish in the sea who won't play games with you. No more than that. Life really is simple, we all just try to overcomplicate it.

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    sometimes i am ballsy and someimte si am shy with women being ballsy gets them yanking on my henry faster but shyness tends to get the good ones interested
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    Sorry Tryska... better stay out of it.

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    Maybe if your line wasn't busy you could get calls

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    Yaz-did Ashley d*ck you over?


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    If you want some female input on this, remember that Tryska and I have offered...

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    Lat - Ya, but I'm getting used to this... Becoming second nature. I say to myself, every time I see a good looking female, who seems to have a decent personality: Now there's a perfect target to ****... myself over with.

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    Sayiajin Prince has got the right idea..

    Ever since I dropped the 'nice guy' act... things with girls have been goin' great.

    The ironic thing is that the women who complain about 'never finding nice guys' are often the same ones who turn them down.

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    It's an age thing Spidey. The older chicks tend to not play mind games as much. When I say older I mean 24 and over.
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    Um, Yates is onto something but I think it's not so much age as what stage the person is in and what they're looking for...

    If someone is out looking to just flirt and have fun and play the field, then there's gonna be a lot of games and "stock market" trading, trying to see what they can get and what looks the "best" on the market...people are not too "real" at this stage...they're working on marketing themselves...and this is also the stage where they seem to be fascinated with "bad" guys or "bad" girls.

    If someone is looking to find a best pal to hang out with and a friend to confide in as well as a romantic interest, then the focus shifts to finding someone who is comfortable just being themselves, who has some interests in common, and whose best qualities may not be on display in tight clothes.

    Then there are those who are actively looking to get married/have kids, REALLY settle down...

    And, yes, there are a lot of a-holes out there (male and female), but there are a lot more decent people...it's just that the a-holes are SO noticeable ....that 10% seems like 100.

    BTW, I'm over 24 and it's still the same thing...but by then you've got a MUCH better idea of what you want and putting an end to games right away...

    Don't give up!

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