I couldn't help it, I had to check out sosuave.com. Decent site too, IMO. There was this debate going...

Nice Guys Vs. Jerks, which do women prefer?

Gotta ask, out of the few women on this board, which do you tend to lean toward? Granted, I think the majority of you are 21 and over, so you tend to be a bit more "grown up" about the relationship standpoint... I'd think, anyway. Nice guy, or the jerk?

I agree with the statement that said, A guy that is both a nice guy, and a little bit of jerk has the most success. Meaning, I'm da **** in public... but with her in the privacy of everything, sensitive.