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The Five Biggest Contradictions in Fitness

It’s no secret that when people contradict themselves, it has the effect of making the flaws in their actions or statements seem glaringly obvious. But what about when WE ourselves get caught contradicting ourselves by someone else?

By: Nick Tumminello Added: January 6th, 2014
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View Poll Results: Would you cheat on your girlfriend?

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  • NO NEVER I'M 100% LOYAL TO MY GIRLFRIEND!

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  • No but I have thought about it

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  • No but I would if the chance came up

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  • Yes, and me and my current girlfriend have been together 1 month

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  • Yes, and me and my current girlfriend have been together 2 months

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  • Yes, and me and my current girlfriend have been together 3 months

    1 2.27%
  • Yes, and me and my current girlfriend have been together 4-6 months

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  • Yes, and me and my current girlfriend have been together 6-12 months

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  • Yes, and me and my current girlfriend have been together 1-2 years

    2 4.55%
  • Yes, and me and my current girlfriend have been together 2 years or more

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  1. #1
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    Would you cheat on your girlfriend?

    Just curious to what everyone thinks about this. I always run into sexy girls and well I have a girlfriend so I don't try to pick them up. I just want to see how everyone else is about stuff like this.

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    "girlfriend?" Whats this girlfriend thing you talk about???

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    its rough
    i love my girlfriend and all.. but chicks ... whenever i think too much about it i think "am i gonna regret this tomorrow and for the rest of my life?" and then i stop--
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    Nope. If I felt the need to have sex with another girl, I wouldn't be wasting my time with a girlfriend. The way I see it... if you're at the point where you're constantly checkin other girls and wanting to stray, then why are you wasting opportunities by being with a girl who doesn't do it for you completely?

    It's not really being a romantic, it's being practical... it's easy to get ass, and if that's what you want, then stay single... it's much easier and much less messy.
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    No I'd never cheat on my g/f.

    If I see some hotties at the mall or something, my philosophy is "Look, but don't touch".
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    No never... how would you feel if you girlfriend cheated on you?
    I'm not moaning, i'm having an opinion.

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    If you've made an 'exclusive commitment' to someone and then you violate that commitment, you're degrading yourself as a person. Not that that stops some people. The utter lack of self respect and (dare I say it?) HONOUR shown by many people in today's world is really quite appalling to me.

    Alex is exactly right... if you can't be loyal to one girl, you're kidding yourself, wasting your time and wasting her time by having a girlfriend.

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    You ask how would you feel if your gf cheated on you?

    Well, when i was with my very first girlfriend we went out for 4 years. I eventually got her pregeant. About 6 months into it, she decided to have a party and tells me "you shouldnt come, we should be apart for tonight" I thought something was up, so i went over there. Lights were off, i figured she was in bed. I walk in, (Like i always do) and what do i see? I see her screwing some guy, While she is pregeant with my child. So yes, i know how it feels. and ever since then, i haven't been able to trust a single female. I feel its my turn to return the favor (hurt) to females.

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    Quote Originally Posted by J_weik
    You ask how would you feel if your gf cheated on you?

    Well, when i was with my very first girlfriend we went out for 4 years. I eventually got her pregeant. About 6 months into it, she decided to have a party and tells me "you shouldnt come, we should be apart for tonight" I thought something was up, so i went over there. Lights were off, i figured she was in bed. I walk in, (Like i always do) and what do i see? I see her screwing some guy, While she is pregeant with my child. So yes, i know how it feels. and ever since then, i haven't been able to trust a single female. I feel its my turn to return the favor (hurt) to females.
    Exactly.. you got cheated on and due to that, haven't been able to trust women since.. that's why i'd never cheat as i wouldn't want my girlfriend to do it to me, so i wouldn't to her.. as for hurting random women in return to make yourself feel better - really not a good way to go...
    I'm not moaning, i'm having an opinion.

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    im with the others... what's the point of having a girlfriend if you are gonna cheat on her... might as well be single.

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    haha once i broke up with a girl and then she hooked up with a guy.. and for some reason my mind registers that as cheating so now im reall f-ing paranoid about girls cheating on me... and yea i guess i do now think "well i kno what it feels like to be cheated on so i guess i wont do that to anyone, especially not this girl who i like who is my girlfriend"
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    - women eat cream cakes when you are not looking and have chocolate in hiding places. There are no journal articles to refernce this fact.
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    I wouldn't now that I've matured some more. Finding out your significant other has been with someone else has got to be one of the worst feelings in life (excluding death, disease, etc).
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    But pull your head on out of your hippie haze
    And give a listen
    Shouldn't have to say it all again

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    its not cheating if youre in a differant area code
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    Quote Originally Posted by Belial
    Nope. If I felt the need to have sex with another girl, I wouldn't be wasting my time with a girlfriend. The way I see it... if you're at the point where you're constantly checkin other girls and wanting to stray, then why are you wasting opportunities by being with a girl who doesn't do it for you completely?

    It's not really being a romantic, it's being practical... it's easy to get ass, and if that's what you want, then stay single... it's much easier and much less messy.
    Couldn't say it better myself.
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    lol you guys must be really hunky. i see sexy and hot girls at the mall all the time. it doesnt mean i could "cheat" with them. its not like theyll have me lol. oh im so pathetic.

    tell me... if you see a hot or sexy girl at the mall do you ask them out?? to my knowledge only sexy beasts can do that. give me some advice to how you approach them. thnx.

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    approach with confidence.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Belial
    Nope. If I felt the need to have sex with another girl, I wouldn't be wasting my time with a girlfriend. The way I see it... if you're at the point where you're constantly checkin other girls and wanting to stray, then why are you wasting opportunities by being with a girl who doesn't do it for you completely?

    It's not really being a romantic, it's being practical... it's easy to get ass, and if that's what you want, then stay single... it's much easier and much less messy.

    I agree, to an extent. I don't think there's anyone ou there who hasn't fantasized about being with another girl. It's the acting on it part that can get you in trouble.

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    Well, there's fantasy, then there's desire. You can find the thought exciting, but not have the desire to act on it. If I found myself wanting to bang another girl, or having to hold myself back from it, then I'd be makin myself single fast.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Belial
    Nope. If I felt the need to have sex with another girl, I wouldn't be wasting my time with a girlfriend. The way I see it... if you're at the point where you're constantly checkin other girls and wanting to stray, then why are you wasting opportunities by being with a girl who doesn't do it for you completely?

    It's not really being a romantic, it's being practical... it's easy to get ass, and if that's what you want, then stay single... it's much easier and much less messy.
    Ha, I'm with you on that bro. Would I cheat? no, why? my girls my girl she feels the same way about me and thats all I need... security and someone who knows me loves me and is always there for me.
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    I agree totally.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MrWebb78
    approach with confidence.
    i did. but after getting turned down a few dozen times you begin having doubts.

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    Depends on the situation. I was with my ex-wife for 8 years before I cheated on her, and that was after she'd already told me she wanted a divorce, so I don't think it counts.

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    It's not like you have a girlfriend just to cheat on her....You don't LOOK to cheat....

    It just happens....

    I'm not saying I WOULD cheat, but can't say I WON'T cheat....

    The only real way to find out is to be in that situation.......You just never know.....

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    Good answer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by stray dogg
    It's not like you have a girlfriend just to cheat on her....You don't LOOK to cheat....

    It just happens....

    I'm not saying I WOULD cheat, but can't say I WON'T cheat....

    The only real way to find out is to be in that situation.......You just never know.....
    To actually cheat, you gotta be thinking about it. if something's an option, you could act on it. If something's not an option, it ain't gonna happen. Problem is when people start kidding themselves, being with somebody who's good enough for right now, or perfect in every way except for *short list here*, etc. That's when you start lookin elsewhere. Starts out innocent, but gets more serious, and after being through enough relationships, you realize when that line could get crossed.
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