im having a hard time with libido and sustaining an erection , im scared out of my mind , what the hell is this ? im ninteen years old for christs sake . can viagra be taken this young ? im so scared...
See your Doc....get blood work..relax, it happens.
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You might be over stressed. Parasympathetic nervous system is whats responsible for your erection, when your Sympathetic is on(during stress) you can not get an erection cuz only one of the systems can function at a time on a certain organ.
im always stressing , always , abotu everything so that could very well be it . alot of my friends are always saying to "stop stressing" but it really isnt that easy , its pretty much the way im wired . arent there meds for that ? the strange thing is a year ago i had no problem with all of this , none at all , and this has only come to my attention recently since i started dating this new girl . when we're messing around i cant quite seem to get as erect as i used to , and its scaring me to death .Originally Posted by migs
LMAO, dude, I'm 16 and had this same problem. I was stressing like mad over school and all kinds of stuff, and was having the same problem. Summer rolled around, I started relaxing....you couldn't keep me 'down'. I wouldn't worry about it.
go crazy and good luck:
have you ever, or are you currently dieting or taking any supplements?
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the only thing im taking is whey three times a dayOriginally Posted by geoffgarcia
You could be working out too much/too often also. Take a couple of days off, a week or two. Also try to relax and take it easy, you will be fine.
nope , definatly not that , i wont be working out untill i get back froim europe . my guess is its the stress thing .
First off dont worry. It happened to me ironically when I was also 19. i happened to be stressed at university at the time and having problems with a relationship i was having with a girl and I got stressed. Eventually it found its way to becoming erectile dysfunction. Obviously the moment that happened i was worried sick. And thats the killer. Worry. It went away again after a month. the reason? i stopped caring and worrying about it. watch some porn. seriously. dont think about it....dont even try to get a hard on. just watch some nice girls and it wioll all just work naturally. stop monitoring it.
Also go see your doc too to be sure but im 90% sure there is nothing more wrong with you that a bit of worry. it has happened to so many of my mates i cant tell you. of course noone ever admits this stuff till they are 30 or whatever so none of your friends are gona admit it and so you feel isolated and different. chill
I had a problem with this recently. My whore of an ex wife told me she was sleeping with her best friends husband.
For some reason, it affected my sex drive. Weird.
But it only lasted a week. Stress can do lots of ****ty things to your body. And im 30.
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Why does weightlifting affect libido and erections? My girlfriend is partially against me lifting for that reason. I have no problems mind you, but I'm just curious.
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It doesn't.Originally Posted by superior_will
Girlfriends are often against things, with little or no rational thought behind it.My girlfriend is partially against me lifting for that reason. I have no problems mind you, but I'm just curious.
If you are you used to having a lot of sex and all of a sudden can't get a good erection you should talk to someone. If you can't even get an erection masturbating you should talk to someone. But if you are not used to having sex and having erection problems don't worry at all. It is very hard not too worry but I'll tell you why. The first time I tried to have sex i didn't feel nervous but after awhile when i realized it wasn't going to go up I got really nervous. It took me about 10 times before my body got used to the feeling and the nerves settled. Basicallly what I'm saying is that it is your nerves even though you might not feel nervous. Once you have sex more often it will become automatic. JUst got to get your body used to it and if your gf is anything special she will understand and it will be all good.
try some green for the stressing.
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Gizotch , heres a question bro . I gather you are sleeping with a chick and your little soldier wasnt marching so ... were you really thinking alot about satisfying her ?? That can be a major cause of it . You want to please them so bad that it just backfires . The problem is it kind of spirals itself since it consumes your every thought while trying to get busy .
Give me your broken , give me your beaten ... I will build them up , I will lead them ... to the threshhold . Make you stronger , make you believe .
Actually, some who train very hard (raising their blood pressure to very high levels) and/or take ephedrine maybe have erectile dysfunction. I believe high blood pressure is one of the leading causes of impotence.Originally Posted by Scott S
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I stand corrected. Thanks Chase.Originally Posted by BCC
lol...that can be so true. Moral of the story, who gives a **** about her. Besides...theres no such thing as premature ejaculation. Thats something women made up to hold over our heads. IT IS A RACE....YOU FINISH FIRST....YOU WIN!!!Originally Posted by Brawl
Last edited by adrenalinaddict; 08-01-2004 at 07:49 PM.
i dont suffer from premature ejaculation-- my girlfriend does.
Last edited by JTyrell710; 08-01-2004 at 09:21 PM.
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Originally Posted by bodyOriginally Posted by kevinstarke
Yeah I wouldn't call it suffering.
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Go see a doctor if it's a huge concern.
Talk to your GP. He'll recommend a urologist or a psychologist (or both).
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