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The Five Biggest Contradictions in Fitness

Its no secret that when people contradict themselves, it has the effect of making the flaws in their actions or statements seem glaringly obvious. But what about when WE ourselves get caught contradicting ourselves by someone else?

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    Someone respond to my stupidity!

    I must be mentally challged. I'll start from beginning or around there somewere. 3 months ago i got a summer job at a juice factory, not bad. There was this crazy hot girl working there, i found out that she went to school near were i live. So basically when she and i finish work we'll be going off to the big city and pretty much living next to each other. I thought to myself, wow this is great. I find out that she has a boyfriend. So couple of weeks ago i make a joke aobut something, and she starts to rub my shoulder, i tell her, as ajoke" come one now, you have a boyfriend waiting at home for you" or something a long those lines. She responds by saying that once she's gone off to the city she'll be single again, the're planning on breaking up. Once again my confidance soars. Today was her last day at work (i still have 4 days) this is where the story gets ****ing stupid. Yestruday i was feeling down, bad gym day bad diet etc, nothing going right, so i baraly talked to her. Today was the exact same thing, i hardly talked to her. She tried to initiate conversation about 4 times, i blew her off like it was nothing. I was walking past her to sign out ( i finish 1 hour before she does) she's says to me "are you leaving now" she's smiling at me, because she knows i'm going home and its her last day, she's just wainting for me to talk to her or give her my number or email so we can hook up once we're back in school. This is what i say, "Yep" and i ****ing walked away. I feel ****ing ******ed.

    ps. no time for editing, i'm fuming.
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    I've done some dumb stuff, but damn, that was dumb.
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    Accept the fact that you are gay and make it easier on yourself now.
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    Damn man, theres not too much hope left now, but wouldnt the juice factory have her number? I guess you could always get it from them...

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    It happens to the best of us.

    I've had oh...something like three or four opportunities present themselves to me in the past couple of months and didn't pursue them....most recently as of this morning as I was riding on the subway on my way to work. LOL.

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    Damn, man. You just got too nervous. Happens at the worst times.

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    I could have it arranged to have someone slap you with a trouser flounder.
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    hahaha

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    Yes, you made a very stupid move. Sounded like a sure thing too.
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    Yeah it was a stupid move but we've all made stupid moves. Use the memory of your failure to prevent yourself from future failures. BTW you should have gotten her number months ago AND you should have never mentioned her boyfriend if she's not mentioning him. You could have been hooking up with her while she was still with her boyfriend...
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    now the only chance you got is to start yelling her name at random hoping she will respond. If she does respond. she might not even give you the time of day since she pretty much gave you a freakin invitation to throw it in, and you passed..

    take teh haet up on his offer bro you deserve it..
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    GET HER NUMBER MAN, as was said surely the factory has it somewhere. Make up an excuse to get it. Besides, you can still find her somehow at school. Just laugh and say how you were a dumb**** and it should be ok. But damn, don't let a funk **** you up.
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    Getting her # from Jamba Juice or whatever is kinda stalker-ish though. I think you're over that, there are tons of other women out there...
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    there is still a chance, very very slim chance. She's pretty open about issues to her friend who still works at the factory, when i come in monday i'll talk to her. She might see the girl before she leaves home, thats when i slip her my number or atleast see what she thinks. All in all not my best performance.
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    Yeah, I'd say it's too late to do anything about it now without looking desperate.

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    That was horrible, BUT, if you get it through her friend or whatever and you end up hooking up, it wont matter. Find a way to right your wrong, son.
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    BTW, that was pretty bad man..

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    you f0cking pussy


    this scenario better motivate you so this never happens AGAIN

    hopefully you get lucky in see her in town,party,store, etc.
    and hopefully you'll have the cajones to say whats up :evillaugh

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    Quote Originally Posted by Y2A
    That was horrible, BUT, if you get it through her friend or whatever and you end up hooking up, it wont matter. Find a way to right your wrong, son.
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    Damn, you absolutely royally ****ed that one up.
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    you knew it all along, you just pussied out, no big deal, we all do it, sometimes we just dont turn our balls to the max.

    When youre drunk, your balls go into overdrive, s you gotta find that inbetween, look her straight into the eye and say, so you got a number or something?
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    I like that line 'So you got a number or something?'

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    just sneak into the HR office and lift her contact info from the files

    [dislcaimer: may not be legal]


    Oh, and BTW nice move. Knowing chicks that age, she probably wants you even more now though (playing hard to get). I recommend you move quickly though. Hot girls going away to school have a VERY short shelf life.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Callahan
    just sneak into the HR office and lift her contact info from the files

    [dislcaimer: may not be legal]


    Oh, and BTW nice move. Knowing chicks that age, she probably wants you even more now though (playing hard to get). I recommend you move quickly though. Hot girls going away to school have a VERY short shelf life.

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    Work the friend....

    And you at leat know her full name, right? Look her up in a couple weeks when she goes to school. If she's living on campus, she'll be listed. If not, she may be listed in the telephone directory.

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