My problem is this:
Girls are always giving me this hard to get, hard to get crap right.
I think that they believe that it makes them more desirable.
Like their way of indicating that they like you is to appear as disinterested as possible.
I guess someone always has to play the hunter and the other then hunted.
However once you break down the barrier and letthem know you like them things get a lot different.
It's like you want to get to know them but you dont want to damn marry the girl.
So all of the struggle to find out that they liked you after all then you cant get rid of her to save your life.
What is the story with this?
Does anyone else have these problem, because I like to hit on girls and all but I dont want to be forced to start a relationship with every single one of them.
The hypocrisy is this:
I get shot down and rejected all night long by girls to even find one girl that will talk to you. I dont force myself on people just be friendly and start conversation which I stop if I get the wrong signals.
At least I take the chance, put myself out there and get shot down which is more than I can say for most people I know.
It annoys me to see that all the girls seem to do when they go out is turn guys down until they find one that they like who hits on them. Even a not very good looking girl will get hit on if she is sitting in a club or bar alone.
Like sitting there at a poker machine until she hits the jackpot.
She makes you jump through hoops until you get her interested, then after about a week its the always the absolute opposite.
Cant girls just say what they mean?
It drives me insane cause they are so timid in their approaches in general and I feel like I am doing all of the work until they decide that you have passed the test and are good enough to take usually at which point I am no longer interested.
What do the girls here think of this and can you offer any advice?