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The Five Biggest Contradictions in Fitness

Itís no secret that when people contradict themselves, it has the effect of making the flaws in their actions or statements seem glaringly obvious. But what about when WE ourselves get caught contradicting ourselves by someone else?

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    leechy girl problem

    My problem is this:

    Girls are always giving me this hard to get, hard to get crap right.
    I think that they believe that it makes them more desirable.
    Like their way of indicating that they like you is to appear as disinterested as possible.
    I guess someone always has to play the hunter and the other then hunted.
    However once you break down the barrier and letthem know you like them things get a lot different.
    It's like you want to get to know them but you dont want to damn marry the girl.
    So all of the struggle to find out that they liked you after all then you cant get rid of her to save your life.
    What is the story with this?

    Does anyone else have these problem, because I like to hit on girls and all but I dont want to be forced to start a relationship with every single one of them.

    The hypocrisy is this:

    I get shot down and rejected all night long by girls to even find one girl that will talk to you. I dont force myself on people just be friendly and start conversation which I stop if I get the wrong signals.
    At least I take the chance, put myself out there and get shot down which is more than I can say for most people I know.
    It annoys me to see that all the girls seem to do when they go out is turn guys down until they find one that they like who hits on them. Even a not very good looking girl will get hit on if she is sitting in a club or bar alone.
    Like sitting there at a poker machine until she hits the jackpot.
    She makes you jump through hoops until you get her interested, then after about a week its the always the absolute opposite.

    Cant girls just say what they mean?
    It drives me insane cause they are so timid in their approaches in general and I feel like I am doing all of the work until they decide that you have passed the test and are good enough to take usually at which point I am no longer interested.
    What do the girls here think of this and can you offer any advice?
    Last edited by Shocker; 01-20-2002 at 10:21 PM.

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    yes. i have also come to the conclusion that girls are evil.
    Sweat in time of peace, bleed less in time of war.

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    Re: leechy girl problem

    Originally posted by Shocker
    Cant girls just say what they mean?
    No, they can't. Its not coded in their DNA.

    I agree though. I've had the same problem with girls. I just turn the tables and play games back.

    Like this one chick I'm talking to right now. I know she likes me, but she hasn't said anything and is playing the "hard to get" game.

    So I'm letting her simmer until she either works up the nerve to say something herself (doubtful), or gives up and moves on.

    I play Grand Theft Auto, not female mind games. Sure I don't get laid alot, but I save alot of money, too.
    Vin Diesel has a fever.. and the only prescription is more cowbell.

    Budiak: That girl I maced
    Budiak: macked
    Budiak: heh maced
    Budiak: I wish

    ShmrckPmp5: a good thing people can't fire guns through the computer...your ass would have been shot years ago

    Y2A 47: youre smooth as hell
    Y2A 47: thats why you get outta tickets, and into panties

    galileo: you're a fucking beast and I hate you
    galileo: hate

    assgrabbers are never subtile, they will grabb ass whereever they go,public or not, I know the type, because I am one. - Rock

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    Blind leading the blind. I love it.
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    If they want to sit in the dark, then I will too by God.
    Vin Diesel has a fever.. and the only prescription is more cowbell.

    Budiak: That girl I maced
    Budiak: macked
    Budiak: heh maced
    Budiak: I wish

    ShmrckPmp5: a good thing people can't fire guns through the computer...your ass would have been shot years ago

    Y2A 47: youre smooth as hell
    Y2A 47: thats why you get outta tickets, and into panties

    galileo: you're a fucking beast and I hate you
    galileo: hate

    assgrabbers are never subtile, they will grabb ass whereever they go,public or not, I know the type, because I am one. - Rock

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    Originally posted by Belial
    Blind leading the blind. I love it.
    That's right my friend, I think that I am speaking an all together different language...

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    LMAO

    You all complain if your single and not getting any play
    You all complain about trying to pick up chicks
    You all complain once your in a relationship

    I bet you would bitch and moan if you were hung with new rope.

    I always go after what I want, if I see a guy and I think I'm interested I let him know. People it's dating it's not rocket science

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    But.....but I might get TURNED DOWN!!!
    Vin Diesel has a fever.. and the only prescription is more cowbell.

    Budiak: That girl I maced
    Budiak: macked
    Budiak: heh maced
    Budiak: I wish

    ShmrckPmp5: a good thing people can't fire guns through the computer...your ass would have been shot years ago

    Y2A 47: youre smooth as hell
    Y2A 47: thats why you get outta tickets, and into panties

    galileo: you're a fucking beast and I hate you
    galileo: hate

    assgrabbers are never subtile, they will grabb ass whereever they go,public or not, I know the type, because I am one. - Rock

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    Odd, girls normally don't pretend to be disinterested in me to tell me they like me. In fact, the normal way is by some cute/shy flirting, getting to know one another.. etc. So, you sure they just don't like you?

    B.
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    Originally posted by PowerManDL
    But.....but I might get TURNED DOWN!!!
    Suck it up! Is it that hard to hear no? I'm sure next week you will find a new hottie

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    Probably, and then the same thing will happen.

    This is what you get when you combine a poor self-image and total lack of confidence.

    A girl could walk up to me, tell me I'm the best looking thing she's ever seen and tell me she'd love to go out, and I still wouldn't do it.

    Total cowardice.
    Vin Diesel has a fever.. and the only prescription is more cowbell.

    Budiak: That girl I maced
    Budiak: macked
    Budiak: heh maced
    Budiak: I wish

    ShmrckPmp5: a good thing people can't fire guns through the computer...your ass would have been shot years ago

    Y2A 47: youre smooth as hell
    Y2A 47: thats why you get outta tickets, and into panties

    galileo: you're a fucking beast and I hate you
    galileo: hate

    assgrabbers are never subtile, they will grabb ass whereever they go,public or not, I know the type, because I am one. - Rock

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    Originally posted by Allie
    LMAO
    People it's dating it's not rocket science
    You reckon? Um yes, and I bet you get heaps of the hard to get game from the guys when you approach them. I doubt it.

    From the guys point of view I think that it can be really hard and a damn lot of work too. I think that a beautiful woman is the most powerful creature in the world.

    I also think that most girls need to take a chill pill, relax a bit and stop being so damn precious.

    these are all generalisations anyway I guess, that's why we come across like such hopeless losers. (well I'll speak for myself anyway)

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    Get some balls and then maybe you will see things happen

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    Probably going to be a negative on both counts.
    Vin Diesel has a fever.. and the only prescription is more cowbell.

    Budiak: That girl I maced
    Budiak: macked
    Budiak: heh maced
    Budiak: I wish

    ShmrckPmp5: a good thing people can't fire guns through the computer...your ass would have been shot years ago

    Y2A 47: youre smooth as hell
    Y2A 47: thats why you get outta tickets, and into panties

    galileo: you're a fucking beast and I hate you
    galileo: hate

    assgrabbers are never subtile, they will grabb ass whereever they go,public or not, I know the type, because I am one. - Rock

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    how do girls play games. let me tell you a story. i will make it as short as possible.

    I met this chick at school and we shared a class together. well we formed a study group for the class and through the study group i got to know her and numbers were exchanged. the same day she calls me and we begin to talk and get to know each other abit better. about a week passes and we are talking everday now (she called me ever time). i thought to myself, this is a cool chick that i can talk to. why not ask her out, so i do (plus she seems interested by the signs she gave me.). at first she is a bit hesitant and calls me back to say yes. she restricted the date to a short time (i will tell you why later) which i wasnt planning on and made the date not as great as i was looking foward to. well she calls me up the next day to tell me she had a good time and everything and casually brings up that she has a boyfriend of 18 months;however, she she said she didnt know where the future with him was leading to. at this point i was really confused. out of respect i decide not to ask her out again ( i didnt want to be responsable in breaking up a long term relationship). she continues to call me up and my dumbass still talked to her and had long conversations. she was trying to get me to ask her out again and tell her to break up with her boyfriend so we could see each other. well i didnt want to make any decisions for her and was letting her do whatever she wanted. the phone conversations continued and i wouldnt budge.(at that point she became a cool friend to talk to and thats all i wanted out of that relationship.) after a while she got mad at me for not doing anything and gave me the cold shoulder at class.

    girls are evil.
    Sweat in time of peace, bleed less in time of war.

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    I couldnt pull ass with a tow truck

    So ya know what? I dont even attempt...I figure one day when it is meant to be...she will approach me
    Last edited by G-B; 01-21-2002 at 12:20 AM.
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    Originally posted by G-B
    I couldnt pull ass with a tow truck

    So ya know what? I dont even attempt...I figure one day when it is meant to be...she will approach me
    lol thats what Im doing too, hasn't worked very well for me though.

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