so my gf keeps complaining. she's one of those people that wants to give up on weightloss because she thinks it's not possible because of how her body is shaped. she's tried dieting or whatever which I think she could of probably been more strict on but she says it didn't work. i can just look at her and tell she has a decent amount of mass from muscle. her legs are diesel and she's strong as hell and no she doesn't look like a guy. but she also has fat that she wants to get rid of in the stomach, ass and upper leg regions. and I told her anybody can lose weight its not impossible. but then she told me its useless because of the muscle she has so even after she loses the fat she won't be able to get down to the size she wants because she'd be too big. but i know there's a way to work around this i read some article before about how an actor had to do it... gained 15-20 pounds of muscle for a movie then the next he had to be skinny so he couldn't look so jacked, it may not be the best example but you get the point. anyways I'm just lookin to see somebody elses point of view on this and simple advice i can give her cuz I think I get to technical when I talk about it cuz its something I feel very passionate about. we've been together for almost 2 years so i guess shes starting to feel like how the typical like wife or whatever is stereoptyped as and wondering if she's too big or not and constantly asking me how I feel. and she says it makes it even worse that I go to the gym all the time and call myself fat.. thats just my way of motivating myself cuz I want the perfect stomach eventually.. but she says that doesn't help. I don't do it on purpose though. anyway, suggestions?