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The Five Biggest Contradictions in Fitness

It’s no secret that when people contradict themselves, it has the effect of making the flaws in their actions or statements seem glaringly obvious. But what about when WE ourselves get caught contradicting ourselves by someone else?

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    who wants a girl?

    first off i'm twenty -two years old.

    i'de like to make a thread where we can share a few things WE have learned about chasing women. and i emphasize WE, not something you've read about or something you've heard f rom a buddy- something you've learned by going out and DOING it:

    btw this are all things on how to pick up chicks

    1. girls love a smile, smile when you talk to the chick, let her know your happy, and if you arent, well then dont smile, but a smile never hurts.

    2. say HI, if you see a girl you like its as easy as this..."HI", if she gives u a weird look and doesnt say anything,move on (shes dumb, if she knew how to conversate shede say hi back atleast) if she says hi back then you have an opportunity to say somemore to her.

    3. if you catch a girl looking at you she is interested.....and maybe not, but its good to always think she is, lol

    4. let the girl know how beautiful she is, this shouldnt be the first thing you say to her, but let her know how fine she is.

    5. if you want her phone number i go about it two ways if need be : "what is your phone number?" "you shoud let me give you a call sometime." - and this after weve talked for a couple minutes atleast, never the first thing to come out of my mouth, **** like that only works in high school lol

    6. PUSSY IS NEVER GOING TO COME TO YOU, YOU HAVE TO GO OUT AND GET IT, YOU HAVE TO SAY HI, RARELY WILL THE CHICK SAY HI

    ok, lets here some of your guys advice you have learned while trying to find a nice girl to get with
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    A girl to keep for the long run (marriage)...that will come from either my graduate school courses or my mosque (essentially a Muslim church).

    I have to be with a girl I respect and that requires intelligence and morality.
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    have self confidence, girls also love *******s soooo.
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    I am tempted to say insecure or masochistic girls like *******s. A girl with strong self-esteem (ie the type you actually want) I would think would be less likely to go for someone who enjoys making people feel bad.

    Self-esteem is where it's all at. By far the #1 factor. Heck if you have self-esteem and you enjoy dancing then you have the double-whammy in my opinion. If you're a fun/good dancer then you can pretty much go into any dance club, dance with any quality girl there, and hit things off from there.

    Oh and girls enjoy sex in a more emotional and non-mechanical way than guys seem to. Play with them and tease them, even talk dirty if you want to. The girls I've been with have gotten off on this stuff.

    PS Read pornographic literature if you want to be good in the sack. Some of the stories are written by women and give you some insight into how they think.
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    I'm really interested how on learning more about how different people interact with girls and how you guys think.
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    My woman loves it when I beat my chest and throw feces at any other males who look at me in a threatening way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by whiteman90909 View Post
    My woman loves it when I beat my chest and throw feces at any other males who look at me in a threatening way.
    I loled.

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    My woman was also a D1 college athlete, so I am quite comfortable in the fact that she understands much of what I am thinking...

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    Dont try too hard..you dont wanna be the guy at the bar who hovers

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    Don't be ugly.

    Don't stink.

    Don't be rude.
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    Quote Originally Posted by thoughtshewas18 View Post
    4. let the girl know how beautiful she is, this shouldnt be the first thing you say to her, but let her know how fine she is.
    I disagree with this. If you're talking to her, she already knows you think she's attractive. Moreso, SHE already knows she is. She's already heard a hundred other guys tell her so, distinguish yourself by not pointing it out.

    Don't buy a girl a drink at the bar if she asks you. Actually don't do it at all unless you are with a group of people and are buying a round for everyone. You shouldn't have to pay for her time.

    Comment on an aspect of her appearance, especially if it looks like she put a lot of thought or effort into it. "Those are great shoes" or "your hair looks awesome" are good ones. But try not to sound cheesy or forced.

    If you're meeting chicks at clubs, learn how to dance. Nothing in my single life worked better than just knowing how to dance. If you are one of the only guys dancing in a club (and you will be, so get over it) then girls will come to you. I've honestly had more girls approach me than the other way around. Also, when a girl approaches you, you are much more likely to get her number and/or see her again.

    And to elaborate on what Benny said, you can't avoid being ugly if you are ugly. But get a good haircut, be clean, wear nice clothes and decent shoes, wear good cologne (not too much, just a hint). Have your own style, don't try to look like everyone else in the club. This always worked to my advantage because most guys in the clubs around here wear girl jeans and pastel colors, they spike their hair and wear makeup and have fake tans. I wear good jeans that fit me, usually a black dress shirt, a shaved head and a trimmed beard. I always smell good when I go to a club. I know because girls often tell me I smell good. I look different than most of the guys in there and I dance well.

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    drew, what cologne do you wear?

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    Kudos to the OP - great idea for a thread.

    My tip for what it's worth.

    Play off of her personality. There's little to no point in having a game plan if you can't change it to suit the girls personality. A good example is to get a good sense of her type of humour straight off. There's nothing that can more quickly kill your chance with a girl than offending her with bad humour.
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    Look into her eyes. It creates some kind of connection; girls love that, I love that too. You can watch for pupil dilatation, sometimes it is pretty obvious. Of course, you don't want to fake that connection unless you're a bastard, so listen to what she has to say. Let her do most of the talk, but always keep control of the conversation. You want to get to know her and keep and bit of mystery about yourself. Ask her things about her, let her talk, show that you understand what she says/means by asking more details or by saying back a few things using different words. Point to things you have in common so that she basically gets to know you through herself.

    Of course, the most important thing is to have fun and be yourself (if you're not satisfied with who are, then change yourself). There are no strict rules and most women are humans like us, too...

    The thing to remember is that beautiful women only have the power men let them have. You need to have the power, you need to be in charge. You shall fight on the beaches, you shall fight on the landing grounds and in the streets, you shall fight in the hills, you shall NEVER surrender.

    She might have the pussy, but you're the one with a penis and confidence.

    There is nothing harder and as satisfying as improving the deepest parts of yourself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Max Thunder View Post
    Look into her eyes. It creates some kind of connection; girls love that, I love that too. You can watch for pupil dilatation, sometimes it is pretty obvious. Of course, you don't want to fake that connection unless you're a bastard, so listen to what she has to say. Let her do most of the talk, but always keep control of the conversation. You want to get to know her and keep and bit of mystery about yourself. Ask her things about her, let her talk, show that you understand what she says/means by asking more details or by saying back a few things using different words. Point to things you have in common so that she basically gets to know you through herself.

    Of course, the most important thing is to have fun and be yourself (if you're not satisfied with who are, then change yourself). There are no strict rules and most women are humans like us, too...

    The thing to remember is that beautiful women only have the power men let them have. You need to have the power, you need to be in charge. You shall fight on the beaches, you shall fight on the landing grounds and in the streets, you shall fight in the hills, you shall NEVER surrender.

    She might have the pussy, but you're the one with a penis and confidence.

    There is nothing harder and as satisfying as improving the deepest parts of yourself.
    what a great post
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    drew, what cologne do you wear?
    I wear Emporio Armani. It's light and has a good scent and works with my body. You really need to find the right cologne for you.

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    Cologne, clothes, looks...none of these things really matter.

    Becoming good with woman, is like lifting. It takes consistent practice.

    I see the material things I mentioned above, and compare them to straps, belts or suits. Sure they help you out, but you're the one behind them doing all the work.

    I figure, if I can put the ego aside, and go out clubbing 3 or 4 nights a week without drinking and just have a good time, I'm golden.
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    After years of doing it, I've come to realize that I hate clubs. Too many damn people, drinks are expensive, d-bags run wild, and I'm also not the greatest dancer. But like my good friend tells me, women are not like Jehovah's Witnesses, they won't just come a knockin' on your door.

    I love me a good bar or pub though, usually a better crowd and laid back atmosphere.
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    Compliment her on things that are within her control. That pretty much excludes her looks. You can compliment the way her hair is done or the clothes she's wearing but compliments come off stranger when they are things that didn't include a decision of hers. Especially if you don't know her THAT well.
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    Quote Originally Posted by drew View Post
    I wear Emporio Armani. It's light and has a good scent and works with my body. You really need to find the right cologne for you.
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    oh and to keep or get a woman, tell her that shes fat, or going to get fat, or that their ugly, to keep them or get them you have to knock down their self confidence so they think they cant do better then your
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