This is gonna sound pretty pathetic but I need some help. My girlfriend goes to a different college than me and is currently pledging for a sorority. I here stories all the time from guys and girls about all the weird **** they had to do during pledging. Her sorority has a brother fraternity so she got her big brother or whatever.
Now, I've heard in the past that some sororities have the new girls do things like have sex with a member of the brother frat to get in and stuff like that. My gf assures me that our relationship means more to her than joining a sorority and she would drop out if they ever told her to do something like that. She even said she asked the older sorority girls and they said that's degrating and they don't do that (But I take anything they say with a grain of salt because you can't trust 99% of those conniving *****es).
Is it true that sororities make the girls do that? And if it is, do you know if it's a commom thing and theres a good chance her sorority would make the girls do that?
I know I'm gonna get people saying "if you can't trust her to make the right decision you shouldn't be with her" but its not that I don't trust her, its that I've been giving her hell all the time about how the older girls are just gonna lie to her to pull her in and she is wasting her time and should just focus on school.